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After revealing her honest ideas on love, relationships, and life overseas, entrepreneur and former Big Brother Naija star Anita Akide, also known as Tacha, has started fresh talks online.
Instead of hastily committing to relationships, Tacha urged young women to be proactive in their love lives during an appearance on YouTube’s The Podcast Network.
“You really should have at least three girlfriends…” What I mean is that you shouldn’t have sex with every guy you have. The least that can be said is that Her words carried an air of mystery.
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There should be no pressure on women to settle down too soon, she emphasised.
“Until they’re married, every girl should just be single…” You must meet your husband regardless of your lover.
Society has distinct expectations of men and women, according to Tacha, thus women need to be more cunning in their relationship management.
Grace is a different type of grace for the boys than it is for us. This means we have to be flexible, she added.
The TV actress went on to discuss her experiences moving overseas and how it compares to life in Nigeria. Living abroad, she conceded, can be much more difficult than living in Nigeria.
In Nigeria, it’s not easy, but it’s not easy at all. She went on to say that many Nigerians living overseas fear going home because of their pride, and that it is considerably difficult outside.
“Many individuals who have been abroad are hesitant to return for fear that others will judge them harshly for having tried and failed while abroad before returning.”
Tacha detailed the isolation and financial hardship that many people endure when living overseas, in contrast to the idyllic image they project online.
“People put a lot of effort into creating an image that really, truly, does not exist…” In Paris, two of my belongings were taken… We in Nigeria don’t have it so bad.
The value of Nigerian community spirit, she says, is immeasurable.
“You can approach your intersection and request 7,000 from Mama Ki. You can expect payment from me before the month ends. There seems to be a lot more reason to be optimistic and joyful in Nigeria compared to the United Kingdom.
Nigerians, Tacha said, should not be afraid to speak their minds in order to improve their nation’s standing in the world.
Given their raucous nature and rough exterior, we should take use of their roughness to achieve our goals in the country. We can see if we can alter it… We arrived here after a long journey. Therefore, trying to alter the global perception of Nigeria will require considerable time.